Don’t let people on social media steal your dreams! Research shows that negative comments outnumber positive comments almost 2 for one and when someone posts something negative there are many more comments. Therefore it is easier to find negativity online than positivity. Today I am going to give you tools on how to combat negativity online and help you pursue your dreams!
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Carl’s Theory Of Negativity:
Negativity Bias Is Real And Treatable.
Negative people are often the loudest.
Carl tells a story about a former fighter pilot working as an airline captain who loves his job in episode 88 August 2015. Also in Sept 2013 episode 38, we discuss not listening to the naysayers.
https://www.aviationcareerspodcast.com/acp088-carls-theory-of-negativity-and-how-to-stay-positive/
https://www.aviationcareerspodcast.com/acp038-dont-listen-to-the-naysayers/
Be careful who you share your dreams with. Family and friends can be the most negative, find a mentor with experience doing what you want to do.
Work on the things you can control, don’t let the things you can’t control draw you down.
It is important to distinguish between negativity and reality. Sometimes you need to decide not to do something for a good reason.
Look for people who positively inspire you to make the best decisions, not just fill you up with sunshine.
When giving corrections and criticism, it is much better to continue to stay positive.
Successful people are criticized most often because they are more visible.
Challenge you to find a negative comment and think how you would respond or react positively.
It is usually best to ignore all the negativity.
Take a break. I turned off my TV for 8 years while building my first large business.
Links:
ACP088 Carl’s Theory of Negativity and How to Stay Positive:
https://www.aviationcareerspodcast.com/acp088-carls-theory-of-negativity-and-how-to-stay-positive/
ACP038 – Don’t Listen To The Naysayers
https://www.aviationcareerspodcast.com/acp038-dont-listen-to-the-naysayers/
https://thedecisionlab.com/biases/negativity-bias#
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